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friendshelpingfriends  

What Is "Normal" Anyways?????????

I have a question for all of you.....

I keep hearing a reference made to "If Only I Was Normal Like Other People"....

What is "Normal" anyway. I use to wonder the same thing. But as I have gotten older I realize that "Normal" is a state of being within ourselves.

Everyone has problems and health issues. I could not imagine one person on this earth that is completely carefree, completely healthy, and no problems whatsoever. It there was, would you classify that as being "Normal"?

What would be a "Normal" person..... I would like feed back, because all my life I have been trying to be "Normal" but since I don't know what that is, I can't gauge my progress.

"Normal"..... hummmmmmmmmm, now that would be an awesome concept.

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Celost  

i need to live or i want to die

Hi...I like so many of us obviously am in serious need of dental aid. I am just turned 40, I have 3 great kids, and a survivor of breast cancer(2003) domestic abuse...(x3relationships) as well as a resulting drug addiction which I am still struggling daily to overcome. I have lost my entire life's belongings since losing my home, and my disabilty in 2007. I have to honestly say that because of my self image...I contemplate suicide at least once every single day. I have avoided/cut off almost all relationships because I get anxiety so bad because of my appearance that I letrally get sick to my stomach. I am chronically homeless for almost 2 1/2 yrs now, I am depressed and have many physical problems I feel are related to my teeth. I am trying to kick a drug addiction, but, at times it seems pointless and I struggle with it constantly. I feel ugly, unlovable, undesirable, useless, dirty and I can't live this way anymore. Can someone PLEASE HELP ME??? I really need this to get my life back!! I will do ANYTHING necassary to pay back for the treatment. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE
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Allie1  

Looking for a good smaritian

I am wondering if anyone knows of a dentist in Las Vegas who would be reasonable.  I need dental care badly.  The only thing is I want the IV because I am afraid of dentists.  I can't afford dental care as I have no insurance but I want to get my life back on track - I feel like I am wasting away and I need help desperatly.  I have so much to offer the world and I want to get going but I can't until I can show a beautiful smile.  I have TMJ and teeth that are falling out.  Please someone, please help. Thanking you from the bottom of my heart.

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Allie1  

About Allie1

My daughter is in dire need of dental work.  Her self esteem is so low right now because she has terrible teeth and it is making her ill.  We have no money to help her and am very concerned about her health.  She is depressed and takes meds for that.  She is unable to work and carry on with her life - she is 27 years old and I am afraid if she doesn't get help she may die. She is a wonderful person with a good heart.  She wants to contribute so much to the world and given an opportunity she will become a happier person. Please someone help me to help her.  Thank you for listening and helping.

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mayalou  

Help me start a nonprofit devoted to giving a second chance

Hey there folks.  I'm new to this site, i don't neep help financially or anything. i just want to focus on my idea for a non profit organization.  My intention is to begin a nonprofit that helps people who need it (mainly women and children) but whoever's in need, to get the dental help that they require, whether it be "cosmetic" (which most of the time isn't what we would consider "cosmetic" at all, but a matter of having teeth or dentures), also braces (people who need braces may have resulting pain and tooth decay, also difficulty eating and low self esteem), and general problems with dentistry that they have no way of affording, and if they do finally get it, they remain in debt for years because of it.  It is my intention to do 2 things, commission the government, philanthropists, the public to help financially for my project, and also to get a network of dentists who are willing to donate time and services for this organization. 

My theory is that people who have dental problems that can be seen by others is not only a cause for low self esteem and genaral anxiety when it comes to dealing with other people in a social setting, but also it can impact them negatively in getting a job, a date, an oppurtunity. So basically, give someone a healthy smile, and give them the self esteem boost that they require to take on the world!  Go back to school! Get a new career! Teach their children about good dental hygeine and get their children the help that they require! Maintain the kind of self esteem it requires to make good decisions based on strength and confidence rather than fear, or low self esteem!  Give someone a new smile and give them a second chance, give them a new smile and give them faith that the world will take care of those who take initiative to take care of themselves. Teach them there is such a thing as second chances, and that they deserve it. 

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NellysCloset  

About NellysCloset

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wapitig8r  

About wapitig8r

Hello, I just read Blessd4's page and although its too late for her this Christmas, my family was able to take advantage of Toys for Tots, our counseling facility, and God really came through for us this year in terms of surprise monetary donataions.  I fled a domestic violence situation and received bad advice from the abuse shelters.  I currently share custody of my son with my X. He has been in jail twice but has been allowed to keep his job as a special ed teacher. No one cares. I was a former Wide Area Systems Network Analyst for a large international company.  I have spent 6 years going through agencies- I suffer from PTSD- taking all kinds of medication, feeling sorry for myself and getting absolutely nowhere.  All the agencies want you to go back to work even though you have no self esteem which is absolutely critical to try and find a job in today's market.  I was able to find work as a temp clerk through several agencies in town but that dried up.  My EX sued for custody 3 times for my son and has used all of my mothers retirement savings. I live with my mother. Social Services has adopted the Kurt Vonnegut's Harrison Bergeron model of social services - that is, deliver to the lowest common denominator.  I decided to buck the system and go back to school. That was the best decision I have ever made in 6 years. I made the dean's list and earned a scholarship.  I am attending a community college and earning my AS degree in IT. My self esteem is coming back. I have stopped taking my antidepressants - they only made the depression worse.  I plan on getting my Master's Degree and PhD in computer science.  Social services hates this idea, they want me to say "do you want fries with that" or "Welcome to Walmart" so that I can stop receiving medicaid and food stamps, but receive no benefits and not be able to afford insurance.  I am hopeful that Barack Obama will change the system. If I can offer help or advice to anyone in a similar situation feel free to contact me.

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ctedcarpenter  

About ctedcarpenter

I was in the construction industry until December of 2007. The bottom fell out and i went from a 65,000 a year job to unemployment which will run out in 1 more month with no more extensions from the state of california. i lost my home, vehicles, job,  credit, and most  importantly my health and dental insurance. i am in desperate need of partial dentures to help with my continued job hunting and my personal self esteem. i am hoping that someone will understand and want to help. thanks CTC Riverside, CA.

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Kay5  

Teaching Respect

I am in the process of writing curriculm for children along with their parents regarding basic manners and common courtesy.  I am basing this teaching on respect which I believe is lacking in children and teens.  My goal is to teach self esteem and confidence by being able to express opinions without judgements and to listen to others with interest and respect. 

 I would appreciate input and opinions as I build my workshops.

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bibifes  

About bibifes

Hello everyone. I'm a single mother of 2 boys living in the Philippines. I really need help please so i can have my teeth fixed. I have no money to have any dental work done and its been more than ten years. I've been losing a tooth every few months already and I'm feeling depressed. Any assistance will be truly appreciated. God Bless you all. 

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concerned gf  

concerned gf

My boyfriend has two years in recovery and we recently were blessed with an amazing little girl. Everything is great, except Josh's teath are ruined from years of abuse. They are almost all broken off at the gum line. They all need to be pulled and he needs dentures this is far out of our price range, with a brand new baby and me being a full time student. Josh paints full time, but he just make enough to take care of us, his family. Not only are the teeth unattractive, but a source of poor esteem and I feel it might relect poorly on our daughter. In a addition I feel there is a health risk here, with the broken off teeth becoming infected to jus the general concern that he can not chew his food properly. I need him to be around as long as possible. Every little gril deserves a daddy.
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Kristykelly  

I beat heroin & am clean 2 years, but at 28 have no teeth and very little money

Hello. I was addicted to heroin from the time I was 18 untill I was 26. Because of this, I lost all of my beautiful teeth. Since being clean, I had a little boy. He's the best thing that ever happend to me.  But I cant get a job and support the two of us without teeth. I have had really good jobs, I managed a store in the mall, I assisted an advertising executive and I can make good money, but not like this. (Not being vein) I have always been very pretty, and still am until I open my mouth. I cry about this alot, I feel bad for my son, I dont want him to be embarrased of me, and EVERY DAY I hate me for what I have done to myself. My self esteem went from 90 to 0. If there is anyone out there that can help me, I would owe them my life. I would tell my story and tell that there is rehabilitation and also that there are still good people in the world. If you can help in any way my email address is kristykellymail@yahoo.com.  My number is 727-374-7084.  I live in St. Petersburg FL but would be willing to travel pretty much anywhere in Florida. Thank you and God Bless.

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lost cause  

end of the rope.

     I broke my back five years ago but it is better now. my driving license were revoked over a year ago, I need a hardship but dont know how. I  just lost my job at the flowershop. I work hard but I'm not verry smart. My rent is past due. my computer will go back tomorrow. my mother is broke.my father is dead, my child support is way behind. I miss my son. I need a job.  I can't cry about it.  I'm sorry. I don't want to die. Ineed help.    

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